Selfish

Real Meaning of the Word 'Selfish'

Real Meaning of the Word 'Selfish'
So many of us have been told we are being selfish either in our own self talk or by others in our life. It doesn't feel great either way.

The idea of being selfish came up in a group conversation I had recently; and when this definition of 'selfish' was shared it was a moment of, "Wow, I can't unsee/unhear that now." So often this word is used to shame, guilt, influence, and/or get us to change something we are wanting to do. Ponder this...does this definition of 'selfish' de-weaponize it for you? If so, what are some ways you can continue to lean into who you are, living your life in a way that makes you shine and use your strengths, gifts, and being the person you can to earth to be in all your fullness?

What is your new perspective on being 'selfish' now? And what does that look like for you going forward?


Meet Danielle Norlund

My name is Danielle Norlund, I go by Dani. My gift of being able to communicate with the animals and trees around me has been present since I was a child. It was always a normal thing for me; until it wasn’t. Schooling and conditioning has a way of taking us away from these innate abilities and knowings. As I journeyed through life I had a 33 year career as a human bodyworker, specializing in rehabilitation; as well as a National Board Certified Health & Wellness Coach (NBC-HWC), coaching individuals in my private practice, serving as a behavior change agent and partnering with clients in the behavior change process — empowering, supporting, and guiding individuals looking to enhance their well-being through self-directed, lasting changes that align with their values. Amid my professional career, I sought my Master’s degree in Public Health with a specialization in Mental Health, using my degree to help inform my work with individuals as a health and wellness coach, and agent for change.

In 2019, I knew I wanted to return to working more with animals and to get back to using my innate gifts. I re-entered working with animals more full-time through canine & equine bodywork, followed by becoming a professional equine hoof care provider. You may see more on these at my sister website: www.pawshoovesandhearts.com

After establishing my private practice as a National Board Certified Equine & Canine Bodywork Practitioner, Equine Lymphatic Therapist, and Professional Hoof Care Professional, I sought further training and mentoring to re-find and strengthening my energetic and communication gifts with several known U.S. mentors in animal communication and energetic healing; and through shamanic trainings, as I have long had a strong interest in and connection with Indigenous shamanic and healing practices. As I progress forward in my private practice, I desire to share these gifts and abilities with you and your animals so that they may help transform your lives.
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